In Her Own Words
About Her
"I recognized that it doesn't matter if a guy is sexy, funny, smart, charismatic and rich if he doesn't make you feel safe to communicate openly, safe to trust his commitment and loyalty, or safe to be your fullest self. A relationship of shared virtue where each partner challenges and supports the other to bloom into their best possible selves."
-- Karen Salmansohn
Need i say more?
Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing,
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
About Her Ideal Match
The best things in life come your way when you least expect them -- when you are content to let nature take its course.
The "butterfly of life" has this simple lesson -- if you find yourself in a meadow and there are butterflies all around, always remember, if you grab at the butterfly, it will fly away. If you just sit under a tall Oak Tree and enjoy all the love the butterfly brings, it will gently land on your shoulder. Don't try so hard to find love. Be patient and it will find you.
You are my inspiration and my folly.
You are my light across the sea, my million nameless joys, and my day's wage.
You are my divinity, my madness, my selfishness, my transfiguration and purification.
You are my rapscallion fellow vagabond, my tempter and star.
I want you.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Kenya | |
Location: |
Gaborone, South East, Botswana | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
195cm (6' 4.8") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Swahili | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Taurus | ||
Height: |
149cm (4' 10.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Reading |
Sports: |
Camping; Canoeing; Dancesport; Golf; Rock climbing; Sailing; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
